Tim Lambesis’ Wife Dany Responds to Latest Video With Statement

With yet one more video arriving on-line exhibiting As I Lay Dying singer Tim Lambesis in a lower than flattering mild, the singer’s spouse Dany has taken to social media to reply to claims that she is behind the leaked clips.

The primary movies to reach got here near Thanksgiving with two clips of Lambesis exhibiting disturbing conduct throughout intense verbal exchanges and shouting matches with Dany.

On the time, Lambesis claimed that the movies have been leaked in retaliation in opposition to him after he had served Dany with divorce papers earlier within the week. He had additionally claimed that he had a restraining order in opposition to Dany who he alleged had subjected him to verbal and bodily abuse.

Now a 3rd video has began making the rounds during which Lambesis may be seen bodily hanging a canine on a number of events.

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With the movies circulating, Dany determined to share her story on social media during which she denies being the individual behind the leaked movies and asks the one who is to cease doing so.

Beforehand (earlier than the leak of that first video close to Thanksgiving), she had issued an announcement calling rumors of abuse allegations in opposition to Lambesis “fully false.”

On this new assertion, Dany alleges that her authentic October assertion was drafted by “managers” working to guard Lambesis’ public picture.

At present (Jan. 17, 2025), she’s determined to talk out after Lambesis’ latest statements and a public interview, one she views as being makes an attempt to cowl up the reality of their relationship.

Dany additionally accuses Lambesis of utilizing “DARVO ways.” DARVO is an acronym for “deny, assault, reverse sufferer and offender.” In response to Medical Information At present, it’s “a way an individual could use to shift duty for an abusive incident onto the survivor of the abuse” and “it could additionally assist the one who perpetrated the abuse deflect a number of the duty and blame onto the survivor.”

Her full assertion on the matter may be considered by means of her Instagram submit beneath:

I didn’t launch the movies which have come out of Tim Lambesis. Not those that have been launched in November, nor those that have been launched at present. Out of respect for me, I’m asking whoever is leaking movies to please cease.

I’ll not keep silent out of worry of Tim. The lies being informed by him in his final assertion and on this latest podcast are deliberate makes an attempt to cowl up the reality and play the sufferer, utilizing typical DARVO ways.

There was NEVER a home violence investigation in opposition to me, nor was there ever a restraining order positioned in opposition to me. That is public data anybody can entry on-line.
The movies that Tim claims to have of me
“abusing” him; are cases of self-defense and outbursts in opposition to his ongoing bodily and psychological abuse, and repeated infidelity with a whole bunch of individuals.
The assertion I launched on October twenty fourth defending his abuse, was drafted up by him and his new “managers” to guard his profession and public picture. Which I’ve proof of.

Tim has repeatedly tried to intimidate me, bribe me, and beg me to signal an NDA in our marriage settlement stating that I’ll by no means publicly speak about him, in order that the reality shall be buried when our divorce is finalized, that are all recorded conversations. I even have a recorded cellphone name from Tim every week in the past, rationalizing, and explaining why he thinks we must always get again collectively.

I refuse to let dishonesty overshadow the ache and trauma I’ve endured any longer. Not simply to me, however to others near this as effectively. This isn’t nearly me anymore.
There may be Tim’s model of why his ex band mates left AILD, after which there’s the reality. There isn’t a “irony” behind the timing of the dissolution of AILD, and our marriage.

In direction of the tip of our relationship, Tim informed me, “In psychology, when somebody hears a narrative of abuse in a relationship from one individual, they’re extra prone to consider that individual’s model as a result of they have been the primary to inform the story.” On the time, I didn’t absolutely perceive what he meant, however it is extremely clear to me now.

The abusive, dishonest, narcissist will attempt to destroy your life & your identify with lies earlier than you may shine mild on the reality.

I’m achieved being SILENT

The preliminary video leaks got here shortly in spite of everything 4 of Lambesis As I Lay Dying bandmates and one in all his Austrian Demise Machine bandmates stepped away from the teams.

As I Lay Dying guitarist Phil Sgrosso famous in his exit assertion that he had been a witness to “regarding patterns of conduct” and that the band “not presents a wholesome or protected setting for anybody concerned.”

Others who departed shared comparable considerations of their respective statements, being attentive to ethical boundaries and preserving their very own integrity.

Lambesis, who served jail time within the 2010s after being convicted for trying to rent a hitman to name his first spouse, is the only real remaining member of As I Lay Dying.